Here are some great quotes from the recent reruns of dawson's creek...they sound like how i'm thinking so...

Joey : He met someone else, or re-met her, as the case may be. Anyway, it's over. We're over. ...What can you do?
Wilder: Start dating, I guess.
Joey: It's just hard. I mean, it takes all this energy and effort, and you have no way of knowing that it's going to be worth it at the end of the day. ...So what's the point?
Wilder: There's no point. You should probably quit. Join a convent. You'd look good in a habit.

NEXT...this one isn't really a recent feeling of mine...just a past one ya'll can probably understand it :)

Joey : How do you remember something that never happened?
Wilder : Fondly. You see, Flaubert believed that anticipation was the purest form of pleasure... and the most reliable. And that while the things that actually happen to you would invariable disappoint, the things that never happened to you would never dim. Never fade. They would always be engraved in your heart with a sort of sweet sadness.